
You Know You’re Dating A Cancer When: 5 Good & 5 Bad Relationship Habits
If you’re currently dating a Cancer, congratulations! Cancer can be one of the most tender and loving signs in the zodiac. That doesn’t ensure smooth sailing, though — not all personalities are going to mesh with a Cancer partner. On the other hand, some will find that a significant other born between June 21 and July 22 is just what they were looking for!
Cancer qualities aren’t black-and-white; traits that are seen as good for some might be seen as annoying for others. Check out some of the pros and cons that tend to accompany dating a person born under the Cancer sign, to see if it sounds like a Cancer is right for you!
Nurturing…
Cancers are known as the “mothers” of the zodiac, and for good reason! No matter the gender, a Cancer partner likes to care for you when you’re sick and comfort you when you’re sad. You’ll always feel safe and protected in a Cancer’s arms, as they’ll always put you first.
They also love to foster a nurturing home, so you can guarantee that their place will be a comforting place to stay. For long-term relationships, this is an extremely good quality to have — especially if you one day plan to cohabitate!
But A Homebody
While a Cancer may do their best to make their dwelling a home, there is a downside to this trait a well. Once a Cancer has its pad set up the way they like it, they seldom leave! Just like a crab in its shell, a Cancer likes to retreat from the pubic and cocoon where they know it’s safe.
If you’re a social butterfly, you may have to do some nagging to get your Cancer partner to come out with you and let loose for once! But if you’re the type of person who considers eating take-out on the couch a romantic date, then a Cancer might be the perfect partner for you.
In Tune With Emotions…
You don’t have to explain how you feel to a Cancer. They already know! Cancers have a sixth sense where they can simply look in your eyes and know what you’re going through. That doesn’t mean don’t say anything, though.
If you need to talk, a Cancer is always there to listen! Even if that means calling them at 2 AM to cry and ramble. A Cancer will consider it an honor that you chose to talk to them. They’re also really articulate and aware of their own emotions. No guessing games with Cancer — they’ll express exactly how they’re feeling!
But Overly Sensitive?
Being an emotional person can be a great thing, or the pendulum can swing the other way and end up being too much. Cancers are very easily upset and don’t handle stress as well as other people. Bad day at work? Your Cancer partner might bring the emotions from the office home with them, so date night is ruined as your partner will still be upset about all the stress from earlier in the day.
They also tend to handle criticism really poorly. Even if you’re trying to be helpful and don’t think you said anything cruel, an insecure Cancer will feel deeply hurt anyways. Tread carefully!
Affectionate…
The last thing Cancers are is cold! You’d think crabs would be pinchy, but Cancers are down to cuddle — claws and all. You’ll never doubt your Cancer partner’s love for you, as they always make sure to visibly show it — whether they realize it or not!
They won’t shy away when they’re around their friends, either. Not to say they’ll pack on the PDA in an overly gross way, but that they’ll make sure everyone knows that they’re proud to be on your arm. You’ll never feel insecure about your relationship with a Cancer partner.
But Clingy
On the other hand, a Cancer’s affection can be taken a liiiiittle too far. Cancers only associate with a small circle of trusted loved ones, and once a Cancer invites you into their shell, it’ll be hard for them to let you out! They love and trust you the most, so why would they want to spend time with anyone else?
Expect your Cancer partner to need tons of quality time and reassurance that you’re still invested in their relationship. They aren’t always jealous, per se, but they can be insecure.
Loyal…
Have you been burned by love in the past? A Cancer will never break your heart — at least not by betraying you, anyways. Loyalty is priority number one for Cancers. Cheating is an unfathomable concept to them.
Remember, Cancer’s are emotional, so if there is a problem in the relationship they’re more likely to voice it rather than repress it and potentially stray to a different partner. A Cancer may be dramatic, but they’ll stick by your side through thick and thin. And like the nurturers they are, expect them to be a bit protective of you too!
But Guarded
As loyal as they’ll be to you, a Cancer partner will seemingly perpetually be in doubt of your loyalty to them. This understandably might bruise your ego a bit, as it gives you the feeling your Cancer partner doesn’t trust you.
Keep in mind that Cancers hold grudges — if they’ve been hurt in the past, they’ll never let go of it. Like a crab’s shell, their walls are UP, especially in the beginning of a relationship. Wait them out, though, and a Cancer will eventually come out of their shell.
Creative…
Are you into music? Drawing? Writing? Chances are you’re into art in some form. A Cancer partner not only shares this passion but takes it to a 10. They’ll express their creativity in every facet of life. They can come up with creative gifts, creative dates, or even get creative in bed!
They’re also great conversationalists, able to hold a conversation about any topic under the sun. Even if they’ve never heard of something before, they’ll ask you questions to learn more about it! If you’re a fan of engaging your brain, a Cancer partner is for you.
But Has Their Head In The Clouds
While a Cancer’s creativity is mainly a positive quality, their imaginative brains do have downsides. Cancers love to daydream and may get a little lost in their fantasies. Or they might be obsessed with binge-watching Netflix and getting lost in a television show or book as a way of escaping reality.
Other times, a Cancer might use their imagination to theorize the worst possible scenario happening in every situation. But hey, if you don’t mind having to bring them back down to Earth every once in a while, a Cancer partner’s escapist tendencies shouldn’t be too big of a hindrance.